Fisi ni fisi tu, no matter the age. It so happens that ladies cannot peacefully walk into a pub, grab a bottle and settle down to calm their stressed selves. There will always be some stranger, popping up from nowhere,trying to chipo her or forcefully give her company. These are the ways to dodge such nuisances.
1. Stick to your crew.
If you walked into Mercury with a bunch of party-holic comrades, keep by their side. In that crew, there is always a Kevin, who has always been eyeing you. He would rather not dance with other girls just to keep you safe. Team Mafisi will be hovering around, but will not dare entice you. Men literally respect a lady who is in the company of another man or other men. So don’t go looking for trouble.
2.Vibe a random guy.
When the heat is too much, janjaruka. Somewhere at the corner of the club there a bachelor; too single to even think of a quickie. He looks calm, composed and mature. You can join him and strike a conversion. Make it look like you ran into an old friend and you two are trying to catch up with the old times so as to confuse the Fisi. Just make sure you got enough stories to keep you two talking but ensure he doesn’t sweep you off your feet.
3. ”I know you.”
You wanna hit him below the belt? Just fake confidence and take him down with probing statements. Be like,” I have seen you somewhere,” or ” I saw you chipo my friend last night, you don’t think I jua you.” Just something creative that will startle him and make him come straight with you, by dropping his intentions of devouring you in the washrooms.
4. Keep busy with your phone.
If you ain’t good with vibes, your phone could be your best company. You could read a blog online, write an article, keep up with Twitter trends or make lengthy calls to your crush so that you get no time to waste on strangers. While so doing, you’ve got to have a stone face to scare Mafisi away or be good at ignoring beckonings from the men around you.
5.Tip the bouncers.
Well, if pesa inakuasha, you could tip a bouncer to keep you secluded and protected from the predators. They will definitely rough up anyone trying to disturb your peace and throw them out. Only the selected few men can get to you because you have met with them before. Well, some people enjoy the cacophony that brings out a rowdy aura. But they still feel like they needn’t be disturbed by the shallow minded individuals lurking around.